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January 23, 2009

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The surgery is over. It ended up being a triple bypass, and everything looks good and went fine and there are cheerful handsome doctors making all kinds of happy nodding faces.

I saw him for a minute post-op and kissed his head and held his hand, and that was nice but all the tubes and breathing machines and beeping things were maybe a little too *real* for my squeamish ass. Then I changed a poopy baby diaper that went all the way up to the neck, if you know what I mean. That, oddly enough, did not squick me out in the slightest. 

Then I ate a donut. That about brings y'all up to speed. 

PS. My mom says to tell you that she thinks you are all wonderful, lovely people. Don't worry, I won't tell her otherwise.

PPS. Ha! I was kidding, right there. 

PPPS. God, I'm tired.

Posted at 03:57 PM | Permalink

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Great news, Amy! And thanks for updating us...you and your family have been on my mind all day!

Posted by: Zoot | January 23, 2009 at 04:02 PM

Keeping your Dad (and whole darn family!) in my thoughts. A little Ez (crazy poop and all) makes everything better. Glad you're able to be there with him. *hugs*

Posted by: Heather | January 23, 2009 at 04:03 PM

good to hear. big luvs to one and all!

Posted by: zeghsy | January 23, 2009 at 04:04 PM

good to hear. big luvs to one and all!

Posted by: zeghsy | January 23, 2009 at 04:06 PM

My dad's bypass 10 yrs ago was really hard for me. It was hard to see my big, strong dad so frail and vulnerable. I'm so glad your dad's surgery went smoothly. He'll feel so much better now. And yay for poopy diapers to keep us distracted from the messy stuff.

Posted by: AmyC65 | January 23, 2009 at 04:06 PM

So good to hear. Your family is deep in warm fuzzies from Cleveland (it's about the only warm things in Cleveland about now).

Posted by: Jen. | January 23, 2009 at 04:07 PM

I am so glad to hear the surgery is over. Here's to a good recovery and some much deserved rest for you and your family.

Posted by: Hillary | January 23, 2009 at 04:07 PM

I'm so glad everything turned out fine. Here's hoping for a quick and easy recovery!

Posted by: Rebecca | January 23, 2009 at 04:08 PM

Yay! So glad to hear all is going well! Your Mom is pretty wise it seems...

Posted by: Hilary | January 23, 2009 at 04:09 PM

im so glad it went well. my best wishes to your family. get some sleep - stress is exausting.

Posted by: obabe | January 23, 2009 at 04:10 PM

That is fantastic news. We'll keep sending the good thoughts your way. :-)

Posted by: Joanna | January 23, 2009 at 04:11 PM

Good news always makes you tired when you can finally relax. Glad to hear he's doing okay!

Posted by: Sprite's Keeper | January 23, 2009 at 04:13 PM

I'm so glad! Ezra looks tired, poor little buddy. :)

Posted by: Marin | January 23, 2009 at 04:14 PM

Hang in there, Momma. And that cute little baby, you just tell him to keep spreading his baby sunshine around the hospital.

Posted by: Bonnie | January 23, 2009 at 04:15 PM

Excellent!!!!

Posted by: Ulla | January 23, 2009 at 04:16 PM

So relieved and happy to hear it went well! I hope all the wires and tubes and whatnot are soon unnecessary and that your dad recovers quickly. I'll keep your whole family in my prayers!

p.s. Great, now I really want a doughtnut. :-)

Posted by: bethanyactually | January 23, 2009 at 04:17 PM

glad to hear the surgery went well. hope your dad has a quick recovery and you get some de-stressing done.

Posted by: Tbooty | January 23, 2009 at 04:21 PM

So glad to hear everything went well. Here's to a speedy recovery!!

Posted by: Jill | January 23, 2009 at 04:22 PM

I'm glad to hear that it went well. Here's to a quick recovery!

Posted by: Janna | January 23, 2009 at 04:22 PM

it really is crazy how involved we get with people we don't know - I've been thinking about you and refreshing all day. SO glad things are looking good. All the best to your family - you guys have the internet praying for you (and on a completely selfish note: seeing Ezra's cute little chubby squishy face makes me sooo excited to birth my own little boy #2 in a few weeks. When I'm not looking at Ez I just feel... pregnant... and sleepy... and zzzzzzz. He gives me hope.)

Posted by: Kirsty | January 23, 2009 at 04:23 PM

Yay! Now I can stop anxiously refreshing! (My feedreader refuses to admit that you exist.)

Posted by: Jenn | January 23, 2009 at 04:24 PM

Oh my heart is right there with you. I will be in a similar spot next Thursday when my dad goes into surgery and I'm there to hold my mom's hand. You are all in my thoughts and I have many fingers crossed for your family (and for mine).

Posted by: Jenna | January 23, 2009 at 04:25 PM

!! That is such good news. I was so nervous when I saw you updated. I'm glad everything is okay!

Posted by: Sarah | January 23, 2009 at 04:25 PM

YAY!!!! i'm so glad it went okay!

Posted by: Andrea C | January 23, 2009 at 04:28 PM

oh thank goodness. we've been refreshing all day, and keeping you all in our thoughts. get some rest this weekend!

Posted by: supertiff | January 23, 2009 at 04:28 PM

Glad to hear the surgery went well. My mother had valve replacement surgery a few years ago and I know how hard it is to wait and wait and wait. Good thoughts for a fast recovery. Poor Ez, but the kid is so cute he makes my ovaries ache in a good way.

Posted by: ChellBelle | January 23, 2009 at 04:28 PM

*big sigh of relief* I prayed for your dad, the doctors, your mom and you this morning. I'm so glad everything looks good for your dad.

Posted by: Starbuck | January 23, 2009 at 04:29 PM

Phew, glad to hear it went well. Best of luck to your dad in his recovery!

Posted by: Kathryn | January 23, 2009 at 04:29 PM

So good to hear the good news, was definitely thinking about you today. Glad Ez got the memo and has been an rockstar through it all. We'll keep thinking positive thoughts for you all!

Posted by: WendyB | January 23, 2009 at 04:30 PM

glad to hear it was a success. Keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers.

PS..yeah, medical stuff squicks me too, baby poop is old hat stuff.

Posted by: Jean | January 23, 2009 at 04:30 PM

I'm glad everything went well, and you're still in my thoughts.

Again, this is like reading about my life a month ago (down to the delicious baby of mine and the surgery being a triple bypass). Modern medicine is wonderful in these situations, and my father is healing wonderfully, as I'm sure yours will be a month from now.

Posted by: Meagan | January 23, 2009 at 04:33 PM

Thinking of you and your family. Glad to hear the surgery went well, and I'm glad you've got a squishy baby to distract you from the hospital business. Take care of yourself, too.

Posted by: Gaby | January 23, 2009 at 04:33 PM

I came across the link to your blog on another person's blog a while back and spent an entire Saturday about two months ago reading your archives. I've been lurking ever since (but not in a creepy way, I swear; just in a voyeuristic way as a newlywed who will soon be trying to get pregnant).

First some blogger worship: you rock. (I'm, like, the first one ever to tell you that, right?)

Second some support: I am soooo glad to read your dad is doing okay.

Last praise for you as a mommy: you rock (again). Your boys are gorgeous.

Wishing you (and your whole family) all the best!

Posted by: skyewriter | January 23, 2009 at 04:35 PM

Fantastic news. I'm so glad it's worked out. My father died out of the middle of nowhere just over two years ago, of a heart attack. I mention that only to say that obviously, surgery is scary and hard, but it sure as hell beats the alternative. Get some rest and I wish your dad a speedy recovery.

Posted by: Kristen | January 23, 2009 at 04:37 PM

Glad for the good outcome/outlook.

Posted by: lindsayc | January 23, 2009 at 04:38 PM

Great news Amy. Sending you lots of hugs and prayers from Toronto, Canada.

Posted by: Angie Elliott | January 23, 2009 at 04:38 PM

I am so happy for you and your family. My dad had bypass surgery five years ago and I still remember exactly what he looked like right after surgery. He later joked that we should have taken a picture so that he could see too. Anyway, will say some prayers for everyone.

Posted by: Margy Lourie | January 23, 2009 at 04:38 PM

Yay!

Posted by: Shannon | January 23, 2009 at 04:38 PM

So, so glad things went well. Imagine how happy I'd be if I actually -knew- you and your family. ;) Squishy baby NOM NOM NOM! Rest up. :)

Posted by: Maxine Dangerous | January 23, 2009 at 04:39 PM

adorable little peanut you've got there.

Posted by: kate | January 23, 2009 at 04:39 PM

So glad to hear things are going well. Keeping all of you in my thoughts and prayers!

Posted by: Wendi | January 23, 2009 at 04:40 PM

So glad to hear that things went well today! Here's to a full and speedy recovery...and to some sleep for Amalah!

Posted by: Neena | January 23, 2009 at 04:40 PM

I'm thinking about all of you and I'm so happy all has gone well today! So, your dad isn't my Papa...but he had a quintuple bypass 14 years ago and is doing beautifully still today. I had my squishy baby there too, like DELIVERED him while my papa was in surgery. I like think that the squishy baby made things work out nicely. My 14 year old baby knows his great grandpa and loves him madly.

Posted by: Sugared Harpy | January 23, 2009 at 04:43 PM

Wonderful news! I will keep your dad and your family in my prayers.

Blessings.

Posted by: Moogie | January 23, 2009 at 04:43 PM

Yay, Papalah! Glad he made it through the surgery okay.

Little Ez looks like this has just been such an ordeal for him, all those nurses loving him up just takes it out of a guy.

Posted by: Missie | January 23, 2009 at 04:46 PM

Thank goodness!

Posted by: Christina | January 23, 2009 at 04:49 PM

Very, very glad things have gone well, and hope they continue to do so! Except for the poopy diaper up to the neck...

Posted by: Sarah | January 23, 2009 at 04:53 PM

I'm so glad the surgery went well! I hope your father has a speedy recovery.

Posted by: tutugirl1345 | January 23, 2009 at 04:55 PM

Okay, you don't know me (major lurker) and I don't know you (tho sometimes I think I do) but I am so, so glad that your Dad's surgery went well. Happy, smiling doctors are the best thing, aren't they? I am so glad for you and your family.

Posted by: Frances | January 23, 2009 at 04:57 PM

Oh, Amy, I'm so glad all went well.

Much love and prayers to you and your family.

....oh, yeah - GREAT shot of Ez. He is gorgeous. Makes me want another one!

Posted by: Deb | January 23, 2009 at 05:01 PM

Awesome news. Well worth the obsessive number of hits I've put on your blog today. :) Prayers for a smooth recovery. I'm glad you're there...for him, for your mom, for YOU.

Posted by: Stephanie Melton | January 23, 2009 at 05:06 PM

I know what you mean... tubes and liquids flowing and whatnot. And when Josh's grandfather did that awful cough/gurgle in his mouth.. I wanted to run out of the room.

Posted by: Michelle | January 23, 2009 at 05:07 PM

Woohoo! Excellent news!

Also, that little baby there? Man oh man, does he look like you.

Posted by: Anna | January 23, 2009 at 05:07 PM

My dad had quad bypass surgery last Feb and the waiting game was the worst part. Glad to hear things are looking good. Try to get some rest!!

Posted by: C | January 23, 2009 at 05:10 PM

great news! and cute pic!! I will be keeping him in my prayers while he is healing!

Posted by: Alicia Millis | January 23, 2009 at 05:10 PM

Great news, and wishing him a speedy recovery.

Posted by: Busy Mom | January 23, 2009 at 05:19 PM

so, so happy for you.

Posted by: jodifur | January 23, 2009 at 05:27 PM

Great news! I am with you on the realness of the hospital. Give me a toddler puking or a crappy diaper any day, I don't deal well with tubes and wires.

Posted by: andrea | January 23, 2009 at 05:54 PM

Thank god. Good news. I wish him a speedy recovery and lots of strength for everyone around him too.

Posted by: Jennifer P | January 23, 2009 at 05:55 PM

So happy to hear your dad is doing well! Thanks for the pic of Ezra :)

Posted by: Christy | January 23, 2009 at 05:58 PM

Good news, indeed!

Posted by: Laura | January 23, 2009 at 05:59 PM

Yah, Hurrah, Boo-Yah and all sorts of other happy noises. I am glad that your Dad came through surgery and is on the way to a better life. Best wishes to all. Go take Ezra and get some rest, you both have batteries to recharge!

Posted by: Brooks | January 23, 2009 at 06:02 PM

I'm so thankful that everything went well, and I'm keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers throughout his recovery.

Posted by: Jana (the poser formerly known as Jezer) | January 23, 2009 at 06:17 PM

Y'all have been in my thoughts all day. So happy to see the update and to hear that all is well.

Posted by: Stacy | January 23, 2009 at 06:35 PM

oh boy, i haven't had a chance to read you for a couple weeks. glad your dad made it through and sending lots of good karma to all of you!

xox

Posted by: cate | January 23, 2009 at 06:39 PM

Oh yeah!

Posted by: Jill | January 23, 2009 at 06:40 PM

I'm so glad everything thing went well. Looks like little Ezra is just as pooped as the rest of you. Haha... pooped.

Posted by: Stephanie | January 23, 2009 at 06:48 PM

Yeah! That is great news!!

Now put your feet up, relax, and have another donut. :)

Posted by: Tam. | January 23, 2009 at 07:07 PM

Yay!! Fabulous, fabulous news!!

Posted by: nonsoccermom | January 23, 2009 at 07:13 PM

Good news! Wishing him a speedy recovery!

My father survived two quadruple bypass surgeries and is still here to give the kids kisses and act all around crazy.

So, yeah, hugs, I've been there.

Posted by: Kandace | January 23, 2009 at 07:22 PM

very glad to hear things went well - looking forward to continued good updates! ps tell your mom she's wonderful too. : )

Posted by: amanda | January 23, 2009 at 07:25 PM

Fantastic news!!! I was thinking of you (and praying) all day :) xo

Posted by: Paula Schmitt | January 23, 2009 at 07:30 PM

So glad to hear that everything went well. I wish him a speedy recovery and I hope you can all get some rest now.

Posted by: Meg | January 23, 2009 at 07:35 PM

I'll continue to keep you guys in my thoughts. Ez looks so cute in that photo - he looks as if he were the one that wrote that post!

Posted by: Plano Mom | January 23, 2009 at 07:36 PM

Awesome Awesome Awesome!

Glad all went well and thanks for the squishy Ez pic, too!

Posted by: Sherry | January 23, 2009 at 07:37 PM

Just catching up...Speaking from someone who has personally spent WAY too much time in a hospital lately, I get how your dad must feel. Glad everything went well! HUGS.

K.

Posted by: Kris | January 23, 2009 at 07:41 PM

I've been thinking about you and your family (even though I don't know you - so it's weird). I'm glad to know things are going well, and I continue to send good wishes.

Posted by: Janna | January 23, 2009 at 07:43 PM

(Delurking.) *Wonderful* news. I'm so glad everything went well. Your family is in my prayers.

Posted by: A | January 23, 2009 at 08:14 PM

YAY! So glad to hear that things went well. Now praying for a speedy recovery.

Posted by: Amy H | January 23, 2009 at 08:15 PM

I am so glad everything went well for your Dad and family.

Posted by: Hillarie | January 23, 2009 at 08:16 PM

So glad to read this - thinking about you all.

Posted by: Forever Amber | January 23, 2009 at 08:30 PM

Awesome. I have tears in my eyes, and I'm not sure if it's hormones, that sweet, delicious picture of Ezra, your good news, or (d) all of the above.

D.

Hugs. And prayers for a swift recovery.

Posted by: wordnerd | January 23, 2009 at 08:33 PM

I'm so happy for you and your family. That's wonderful news.

Maybe now you will be able to get some rest. Sweet dreams.

Posted by: Emily | January 23, 2009 at 08:35 PM

I am so glad that the surgery went well. Best wishes for a healthy and speedy recovery.

Posted by: kate | January 23, 2009 at 08:43 PM

Hoping your dad continues to make a speedy recovery. Thinking of you all.

Posted by: cartoongoddess | January 23, 2009 at 08:44 PM

All the best to you and your family. Thank you for everything. Get some rest.

Posted by: Nancy | January 23, 2009 at 09:06 PM

YAY!! Glad everything went well :)

Posted by: Lisa | January 23, 2009 at 09:20 PM

Hi Amy. Glad to hear things went well today. You and your family are in my thoughts!

Posted by: SarahO | January 23, 2009 at 09:20 PM

So glad it went well. Wishes for a speedy recovery. You're all in my thoughts and prayers.
Want to chomp Ezra.

Posted by: Jen L. | January 23, 2009 at 09:28 PM

Thanks be to God. That's great news. I will keep him in my prayers for a speedy and thorough recovery. My grandmother had triple bypass on Wednesday and it is indeed a long and painful recovery road, but with lovely people like you and your mom and the rest of your family by his side, plus all the love and prayers us internetters are sending your way, he's sure to pull through and be in tip-top 100% shape in no time! Great news. Thanks for updating us.

Posted by: heathabee | January 23, 2009 at 09:44 PM

Great news! Hope things continue soothly.

Posted by: Heidi | January 23, 2009 at 09:50 PM

So glad to hear he's out of surgery and things went well. Hope everything continues to do well.

Posted by: erin | January 23, 2009 at 09:54 PM

Great news! Glad everything went well.

Posted by: Esther | January 23, 2009 at 10:05 PM

HOORAY!! for Amy's Dad!! (BOO!! for poopy-up-the-back-diapers) Glad he's doing well. Get some rest.

Posted by: Marnie | January 23, 2009 at 10:07 PM

Oh, Amy, I'm so glad everything went well! I've been refreshing this page all day in hopes that there would be good news.

I've been where you are right now--my dad had a quad bypass. It gave us 17 more years with him, until we lost him this Thanksgiving. I know how scary it is to see him like that, but he knows you are there (when my dad woke up from his surgery, he told me to go back to college!). Just keep giving him the wonderful medicine that is Ez and Noah. He needs all your love and support for his recovery, which I know he has in spades.

Love, strength and continued prayers to you and your family.

Posted by: SueBee | January 23, 2009 at 10:16 PM

I'm so glad that the surgery went well, and I hope you guys get some much-needed rest tonight. Hugs and prayers for all of you.

Posted by: Shannon | January 23, 2009 at 10:17 PM

I'm so glad he came through the surgery ok. Prayers for his continued recovery.

Posted by: Kristin | January 23, 2009 at 10:42 PM

We don't know one another, but I as a grandmother, I am just delighted that you, your Mom and your boys will continue to have your Dad, husband and grandfather in your lives.

YAY!

Posted by: Lin | January 23, 2009 at 11:25 PM

so good to hear everything went well, I'm very relieved for you and your mother.
get some rest, cause stress is tiring.

Posted by: mnsm31 | January 23, 2009 at 11:52 PM

Amy, Thanks for taking time to update us on your dad. I am so glad to hear his surgery was a success. I'm sure the kiss on the head and hand-hold was very healing for your dad...touch really is very important to help heal believe it or not. Keeping you all in my prayers.

Posted by: linda | January 23, 2009 at 11:56 PM
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