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Singsong

January 05, 2009

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When Noah hears a song on the radio -- even one he's never heard before -- he still hums along, in near perfect pitch. And not the melody, either. He hums the harmony, complete with key changes and everything.

At night, though, he keeps things simple, and hums Twinkle Twinkle Little Star to himself -- the first lullaby I ever sang to him, because it was the only one I knew all the words to, and later because it was one of the only songs Noah would allow me and my amateurish voice to inflict on him. He sings it over and over again until he drops off to sleep.

Every night for a good two weeks now, I've heard his door open in the middle of the night, his padded pajama feet creeping down the hall as he silently crawls into our bed, spooning up next to Jason the way he's realized Ezra spoons with me, and then quietly -- oh so quietly, like he's afraid we'll send him back to his room if we hear him -- hums himself back to sleep.

Jason sighs, I groan and inch closer to the edge of the bed, we roll our eyes and mime complaints about sore necks and cramped legs -- we sleep in a double, for crissakes -- and mutter promises to get both of them in their own beds as soon as possible.

And then we wrap our arms around our babies and fall asleep to the sound of Noah's sweet and lovely voice.

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Posted at 03:03 PM in Noah | Permalink

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Your boys are so beautiful; Noah is the perfect mix of you and Jason.

Twinkle Twinkle is the only song my 8yo son will let me sing to him anymore, and he still requests it every single night. While visiting relatives in TX last week, he still insisted I sing, but I had to do so quietly so his aunt and uncle wouldn't hear.

Posted by: De in D.C. | January 05, 2009 at 03:13 PM

I have never co-slept, and don't intend to start. Personal space and all that.

But...you almost make me want to!

What a sweet little guy that Noah is.

Posted by: exile on mom street | January 05, 2009 at 03:14 PM

Gah! He looks so grown up. and a bit vampire-ish. So cute, I just want to nibble those dimples.

Posted by: heidi | January 05, 2009 at 03:17 PM

Okay that was over-the-top. Total baby-love. Is overwhelming.

Posted by: Hilary | January 05, 2009 at 03:17 PM

Yeah, I'm not sure how'd you kick him out of bed. He's too cute.

Posted by: Kelly | January 05, 2009 at 03:18 PM

Beautiful! Beautiful! Beautiful!

Posted by: aimee | January 05, 2009 at 03:18 PM

Okay that was over-the-top. Total baby-love. Is overwhelming. Sounds absolutely awesome.

Posted by: Hilary | January 05, 2009 at 03:18 PM

Wait, didn't you hear? Posting your comments multiple times is like totally the new polite. Bleh.

Posted by: Hilary | January 05, 2009 at 03:19 PM

I think you need a bigger bed.

Posted by: jodifur | January 05, 2009 at 03:20 PM

Ahww! My baby boy will never do that. He'd kick us out the bed first.

Dammit your post just about made me melt (and not in a Wicked Witch of the East/West kinda way either).

Posted by: Jay | January 05, 2009 at 03:21 PM


Is Noah available for rent?

Posted by: Lori | January 05, 2009 at 03:22 PM

I so want to hear him sing. It sounds so very sweet.

Posted by: Maria | January 05, 2009 at 03:23 PM

I think you need a bigger bed. Who could resist that little sweetie?

Posted by: Erin | January 05, 2009 at 03:23 PM

That is so heart-breakingly sweet.

Posted by: Hillary | January 05, 2009 at 03:26 PM

awe! cutest post ever. that is so sweet!!!

Posted by: Alicia Millis | January 05, 2009 at 03:30 PM

So sweet, but the investment of a bigger bed is totally worth it... I take that back- in the end the kids take up the additional space leaving you with about the same you've always had!

Posted by: Krista | January 05, 2009 at 03:31 PM

Awww.

Older son is constantly humming something, while younger one is creating songs. Someday, I'm sure you will have both boys making music-and making you smile with it.

I agree, we need a recording of Noah.

Posted by: Suzanne | January 05, 2009 at 03:31 PM

Worth every ache and pain, isn't it?

Posted by: Sprite's Keeper | January 05, 2009 at 03:33 PM

Aw! That's so sweet. I thought you were going to say that he sneaks into Ezra's room and sings it to him and I was goin to be like "OMG! My older boy sings Twinkle Twinkle Little Star to the baby when he's fussing or crying or generally unhappy, too." But then your story took a left turn, and it's still cute and all, but in a different way :-)

Posted by: Jill | January 05, 2009 at 03:34 PM

That's adorable - could Noah hum me to sleep some time, I have a hard time getting to sleep most nights.

Posted by: Hope | January 05, 2009 at 03:34 PM

Wow! Being able to hum yourself (and others) to sleep is a real super-power!

Posted by: Jennifer | January 05, 2009 at 03:38 PM

Humming himself to sleep...oh my goodness how adorable!!

We just kicked our 10 y/o old of our room last year - she liked to make a pallet on the floor. We still have the 3 y/o in bed with us and the 10 month old at the foot of the bed. :)

Posted by: One hook wonder | January 05, 2009 at 03:48 PM

Absolutely perfect!!!!

Posted by: Bri W | January 05, 2009 at 04:00 PM

i've read a lot of your posts. that might be one of the best you've ever written. our 3rd and last bed sharer doesn't come in as much and oh my it makes me sad.

Posted by: ~*M*~ | January 05, 2009 at 04:05 PM

Talk to me when he can sing Rocky Raccoon, ok lady?

Lovely story.

Posted by: Cat | January 05, 2009 at 04:18 PM

This may make you want to shoot me, but I WISH my daughter cuddled. She's 20 months and the kid gives kiss-and-runs.

I love that he hums himself to sleep...cute...

Posted by: Ashley | January 05, 2009 at 04:22 PM

Such a lovely detail- thanks for sharing with us.

Posted by: Cathy | January 05, 2009 at 04:23 PM

A bigger bed definitely helps, but they still end up right next to you (and isn't that secretly where we want them, anyway?) Noah is a beautiful kid...and really, with the near-perfect pitch?? I'm impressed, and a little jealous :)

Posted by: Lisa | January 05, 2009 at 04:24 PM

Ok. So there goes the resolution to not cry at work.

*sniffle*

Posted by: wordnerd | January 05, 2009 at 04:27 PM

I can' think of a better way to fall asleep.

Posted by: Starbuck | January 05, 2009 at 04:27 PM

Oh! So sweet. Thanks for sharing, and enjoy your little boys while they are just that. :)

Posted by: nonsoccermom | January 05, 2009 at 04:28 PM

Jesus, a double?! How is that possible?

We have a king and when we've slept 2 + 1 + 1 in a queen I feel squished. If it's smaller than a queen somebody's sleeping on the floor.

Posted by: Kate | January 05, 2009 at 04:28 PM

Get a king size bed!

Posted by: Kristin | January 05, 2009 at 04:29 PM

What a beautiful post, and so lovely that Noah has such an appreciation of music. And that he knows how to comfort himself - that's a useful skill to have! Happy New Year to you and your family xx

Posted by: Léonie | January 05, 2009 at 04:31 PM

There is nothing better than early morning kid cuddling. Even though we all complain about it.

Posted by: Janna | January 05, 2009 at 04:34 PM

What a beautiful boy and what a beautiful story.

Posted by: Kristin | January 05, 2009 at 04:39 PM

That is an incredibly sweet story. Thank you for sharing it!

When our daughter was born, her bedtime music was always Suzuki Piano Book 1, which starts with four variations on "Twinkle Twinkle Little Star." Around the time Annalie was 3mos, I realized that I could sing the same song in the car or wherever when she was fussy and it would lull her to sleep every single time.

Posted by: bethany actually | January 05, 2009 at 04:42 PM

I love these sweet little stories. I smiled while reading it.

Posted by: sensibly sassy | January 05, 2009 at 04:43 PM

That's so cute. Have you thought about getting singing lessons or music lessons for him? It seems like he may have a great musical kind of talent. Oh and I used to hum myself to sleep. Apparently, when I play piano I often hum along when I'm really into it. It's one of the reasons I don't play in front of people. It's embarassing for a 38 year old woman - without perfect pitch - to hum along to classical music.

Posted by: Amy in StL | January 05, 2009 at 04:47 PM

awww! cute post :) that's the sweetest thing ever.

Posted by: Kelley | January 05, 2009 at 04:55 PM

I am coming out of lurkdom to say "Buy a bigger bed!!" I have read you for a couple of years now, and for some reason this post, out of all of your beautiful, moving, funny posts, has inspired me to comment. What a sweet, adorable little guy Noah is. Totally snackable.

Posted by: Joeyann | January 05, 2009 at 04:58 PM

HAHA! Get a king-size, sucka!
(And I mean that in the sweetest of ways. I have my baby in a sidecarred crib and the snuggeling is so awesome...)
(I also mean that tongue-in-cheek as I totally get that it's important to get them used to sleeping on their own.)

Posted by: Sonja | January 05, 2009 at 04:59 PM

Could that be any sweeter?

Posted by: Marianne | January 05, 2009 at 05:00 PM

This was a great post...so sweet!!! Remember this the next time a teacher tries to tell you Noah isn't perfect. There's a great metaphor out there called "islands of competence" - we can't all be great at all things, so what we really need to do is build up the islands of competence each child has. It sounds like you've found Noah's island. :-)

Posted by: JZMom | January 05, 2009 at 05:00 PM

You sleep in a DOUBLE? Get a king size bed ASAP. Or if you're hard up for cash, get another double and push them up against each other. Now THAT's a bed!

Seriously, two adults should not sleep in a double, and certainly not two adults and one or two baby people.

Posted by: Sonja | January 05, 2009 at 05:06 PM

Ours has been doing that for the last two weeks too. Between a three year old and two very obese cats we are quite uncomfortable at night!

Hope you all had a great Christmas and best wishes for a Happy & HEALTHY new year!

Posted by: Melanie | January 05, 2009 at 05:17 PM

That is so sweet! :)

Posted by: rayshell | January 05, 2009 at 05:29 PM

That's just sweetness.

Except for the part about a double-bed. ?! I can barely manage sharing a king-sized! You crazy.

Posted by: jadinejadine | January 05, 2009 at 05:31 PM

this is the sweetest post i've ever read. my 6 month old has been sleeping with my husband & i for a month or so now. i hurt all over in the morning from accommodating his little body, but when i look at that sweet smile of his laying next to me i just don't care. someday he'll be back in his crib. someday ...

Posted by: Beth | January 05, 2009 at 05:54 PM

Oh, I'm tearing up!! And when did Noah get so grown up looking?? That's a great pic of him, he has a precious face!

Posted by: Breezy | January 05, 2009 at 06:20 PM

My Uterus it aches!
That is so sweet!

Posted by: Julena | January 05, 2009 at 06:22 PM

A DOUBLE? They still make those!? I'm not even sure I know what that means, but anything smaller than a queen is completely outrageous for 2 people (or 4 as the case may be).

I agree with the others - a new bed is in order!

Posted by: Monica | January 05, 2009 at 06:29 PM

I don't want to be hated here, but this post reminded me of why I never want to have children. You guys all say it's sweet, but maybe that comes with actually having a baby? Because...in bed? Seriously?

Posted by: NGS | January 05, 2009 at 06:34 PM

I vote that you just get a bigger bed. :)

Posted by: Aimee | January 05, 2009 at 06:42 PM

My almost three-year-old is still in a crib, and I secretly can't wait for him to move to a real bed so we can snuggle.

Posted by: Maria | January 05, 2009 at 06:46 PM

As mother of a six year old I can say with certainty, you will miss it oneday with a passion. My three year old still sleeps with me son, but only rarely. They are groing up. Up up up. Alex keeps saying, "I'm six you know."

Posted by: Sara | January 05, 2009 at 07:12 PM

I'd upgrade to a queen or king. Hubby and I were just talking about the fact that our son never joins us in bed anymore. I miss it. A lot. Make room for them now. They won't always be crawling into bed with you.

Posted by: Robin | January 05, 2009 at 07:16 PM

I don't know what this says about a 23 year old, but I hum myself to sleep too...and your son is adorable...so adorable.

Posted by: Kim | January 05, 2009 at 07:21 PM

awwwww... that is just the sweetest thing ever

Posted by: judy haley (coffeejitters) | January 05, 2009 at 07:30 PM

Amy, this post made me all teary! So sweet. I hope you and your awesome family have a Happy New Year!

Posted by: amanda | January 05, 2009 at 07:48 PM

What a great thing for Noah, to have a good sense for pitch. It's one of those gifts that I never really thought about until I fell in love with someone who struggles with it. Music class will be really fun for him!

Posted by: Tricina | January 05, 2009 at 07:51 PM

Unwanted advice for the day (but you might like it)

Did you know that high-functioning autistic kids (aspergers) often have gifts in the areas of music? Something to do with the same nerves that are highly tuned that cause Sensory Integration Disorder and that potential relate to the limits of speech development, also link to highly developed nerves that hear and recreate pitch.

Useless info given BECAUSE: say there's this lovely 3 yr old apraxic kid, diagnosed Sensory Integration Disorder, possibly autistic, who has alll kinds of odd behaviors (but mostly only when tired or sick) started taking Suzuki Violin lessons (yes, at 2 1/2), suddenly went from less than 30 words at 30% understandability to over 150 words with 75% understandibility in less than 3 months?

Just saying. Lessons are fairly cheap. Google Suzuki Association and your area. We were absolutely amazed. What OT, Speech T, and everything else couldn't do, was accomplishsed through 2 things- gymnastics lessons and Suzuki violin lessons. (The violin mimics the human voice range. Its believed that it somehow helps kids with these issues to focus and recreate the sounds, I don't know, but it works)

Posted by: Mrs Butter B | January 05, 2009 at 08:10 PM

Well if that isn't the sweetest thing I've heard all day. Please tell me you've recorded that to cherish for the future. (The him singing himself to sleep at bedtime, that is. The part with all 4 of you in bed might be a little tricky. ;) )

Posted by: Diane | January 05, 2009 at 08:11 PM

Oh forgot to say: After 6 months with violin lessons, don't be surprised if they discontinue your services because you DON'T need them (and oddly enough, it was obvious even to me) and if the neurologist says he's going to remove the Autism label if the child continues to make that kind of progress for a full year. Just saying.

Posted by: Mrs Butter B | January 05, 2009 at 08:12 PM

Sounds just like our house. The pictures of him are too cute,

Posted by: Ali | January 05, 2009 at 08:25 PM

Ahhh, I *know.*

Alex still sleeps with us. When he was tiny, we joked that we'd just have to buy a bigger bed if he didn't eventually sleep in his own. We bought a king bed a few months ago.

Posted by: Jana (the poser formerly known as Jezer) | January 05, 2009 at 08:28 PM

That is so sweet.

Posted by: Kyla | January 05, 2009 at 08:32 PM

Sounds like you're going to have a kick ass musician there. He's so adorable!

Posted by: tutugirl1345 | January 05, 2009 at 09:36 PM

Every morning I wake up with a backache and crick in my neck and swear off cosleeping. But everynight as I cuddle up against my 14 month old, I wouldn't trade it for anything in the world. That feeling is better than any drug. (Not that I do drugs.) (Anymore.)

Posted by: Mallory | January 05, 2009 at 09:39 PM

Laying. across. my. desk. WEEPING...such a beautiful boy.

Posted by: linka72 | January 05, 2009 at 09:47 PM

Have you ever thought of music lessons for Noah? He may be a little Mozart! I have a major in music and you sometime hear about kids that have perfect pitch and perfect "ear". I would suggest piano!

Posted by: Veronique | January 05, 2009 at 09:51 PM

That is such a sweet post! Singing little toddlers are absolutely adorable.

Posted by: little dutch girl | January 05, 2009 at 10:12 PM

He's sooo sweet. I love that he sings himself to sleep. That's adorable.

Posted by: Courtney | January 05, 2009 at 10:25 PM

That's beautiful.

Posted by: Papa Bradstein | January 05, 2009 at 10:40 PM

As a music teacher who works with a lot of preschoolers that is one sweet story.

Posted by: Lizzle | January 05, 2009 at 11:10 PM

"Then the traveler in the dark /
Thanks you for your tiny spark"

Posted by: RD | January 05, 2009 at 11:52 PM

You are so blessed! I miss those sweet co-sleeping days!

Posted by: madeline | January 06, 2009 at 01:24 AM

my heart! broken by the sweetness. i love when my baby is extra snuggly.

Posted by: liz | January 06, 2009 at 01:44 AM

That is just beautiful.

Posted by: Rachael | January 06, 2009 at 02:18 AM

Uh, utterly adorable.
My 3 year old daughter loves Red Hot Chilli Peppers so there would be no gentle humming for us in the middle of the night!

Posted by: Tara@Sticky Fingers | January 06, 2009 at 06:45 AM

So beautiful. And I don't think it matters what size bed you have, we have a huge king and our 4 month old somehow manages to rule the entire thing with us squished on the sides. Gotta love it though... sometimes.

Posted by: Jo | January 06, 2009 at 07:49 AM

That is the sweetest story I've heard in a long long time. Thank you for sharing it and starting my day perfectly.

Posted by: pam | January 06, 2009 at 08:44 AM

My nephew only allows my sister to sing one or two (if any) songs because of her less than stellar voice. She'll start to sing Little Einsteins and he shoots her a death stare.

Posted by: Laura | January 06, 2009 at 08:53 AM

If the schools required singing on key, The Offspring would be in trouble. Still love to hear his voice.

Posted by: Heide | January 06, 2009 at 09:02 AM

Okay, that is one of the sweetest things I've ever read. These are the things that we'll miss when the babies grow up and want nothing to do with Mom & Dad!

Posted by: KellMcK | January 06, 2009 at 09:02 AM

Such a sweet sentiment. Thanks for sharing this.

And you seriously need a bigger bed. Wow.

Posted by: SarahMcow | January 06, 2009 at 09:10 AM

oh how sweet.

Posted by: Beachgal | January 06, 2009 at 09:10 AM

De-lurking to tell you what you already know. You have a wonderful child. Please know that his natural gifts can be useful in his education to encourage development in other areas. Tell Noah to keep on singing!

Posted by: Angie | January 06, 2009 at 09:28 AM

a double!?!? how did you survive two pregnancies in a double?!

Posted by: MommyNamedApril | January 06, 2009 at 09:44 AM

that's beautiful. and you totally need a bigger bed. though kids eat up any space they find (have you seen our ever-growing toy area?!?), even with a XL-king, you'd get neck cramps and cramped legs. but the boys could stretch out... =D

Posted by: vanna | January 06, 2009 at 09:49 AM

So glad you let him sleep with you. It's a short time that they want to cuddle with us in bed. And then we're chasing after them for hugs...

Posted by: tracey | January 06, 2009 at 09:57 AM

That is SO precious!

Posted by: Sarah | January 06, 2009 at 09:58 AM

oh my lord, that was the sweetest thing EVER.

Posted by: rachel | January 06, 2009 at 10:00 AM

I'm about 6 weeks away from giving birth to my first. A boy. This made me all hormone-y and emotional (not that it's hard to do at this point)! That is just way too sweet. I hope I have a singer like yours! Just beautiful.

Posted by: Mary | January 06, 2009 at 10:45 AM

Beautiful post. Trust me, they grow up, sleep in their own bed and no longer are small enough to snuggle with. Enjoy it while it lasts.

Posted by: Christy | January 06, 2009 at 10:50 AM

You have made me cry. Granted, I am pregnant and hormonal, but hell, that was sweet.

Posted by: Mel | January 06, 2009 at 11:00 AM

Stop torturing yourself and get a king bed! You can sleep (and do other stuff) in any direction! Those little boys will soon be too big and cool to snuggle with you so enjoy the family bed while you can. At least now they smell good.

Posted by: mrs. q. | January 06, 2009 at 11:05 AM

Ours snuck in our bed until he was 4. He's 10 now, and still crawls into bed with me every now and then. I am going to be so despondent when that ends.

Posted by: Plano Mom | January 06, 2009 at 11:06 AM

We had just broken Maggie of the "sleep-in-Mommy's-Bed-phase" when Will was born. Now he does it. We wouldn't mind so much if he didn't sleep sideways.

Posted by: Catizhere | January 06, 2009 at 11:13 AM

A double? I'd be headed to the couch.

Posted by: Lori | January 06, 2009 at 11:52 AM
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