Singsong
January 05, 2009
When Noah hears a song on the radio -- even one he's never heard before -- he still hums along, in near perfect pitch. And not the melody, either. He hums the harmony, complete with key changes and everything.
At night, though, he keeps things simple, and hums Twinkle Twinkle Little Star to himself -- the first lullaby I ever sang to him, because it was the only one I knew all the words to, and later because it was one of the only songs Noah would allow me and my amateurish voice to inflict on him. He sings it over and over again until he drops off to sleep.
Every night for a good two weeks now, I've heard his door open in the middle of the night, his padded pajama feet creeping down the hall as he silently crawls into our bed, spooning up next to Jason the way he's realized Ezra spoons with me, and then quietly -- oh so quietly, like he's afraid we'll send him back to his room if we hear him -- hums himself back to sleep.
Jason sighs, I groan and inch closer to the edge of the bed, we roll our eyes and mime complaints about sore necks and cramped legs -- we sleep in a double, for crissakes -- and mutter promises to get both of them in their own beds as soon as possible.
And then we wrap our arms around our babies and fall asleep to the sound of Noah's sweet and lovely voice.


For the record Im still trying to kick my daughter out. She started creeping into my bed around 3 years old. Shes going to be 4 in April. Its so hard to kick them out when they snuggle. I l-l-l-love it too much!
Oh my.
I still remember that adorable video you posted of Noah singing "Twinkle twinkle" in his high chair, back when a lot of the words were "ma ma ma"...
Looks like he's a musical genius after all! :)
Not to mention, still adorable. This sweet story you've posted made me feel all happy and enchanted by your sweet boy :)
too sweet. your kid = musical genius.
we sleep in a queen and daily (nightly?) I wish for a king. but those sweet moments in the am when we all snuggle together? that's when we're the best family ever.
Bethany does this every night too... and I LOVE the little "pad pad pad pad..." of her feet down the hall to come cuddle. However, it does make it hard to sleep, so we SWORE we were going to MAKE her stay in her bed starting January 1st, and we did... until last night, when the "pad pad pad pad..." led to her warm little body cuddled up with mine, and I was powerless to resist... :)
Right on, sista! Nothing says 'cozy' like snuggling with your little ones.
Don't knock it til you try it!
I started off all determined that my daughter was NOT going to get into our bed. If she needed help or comforting she had a small sofa and then a trundle in her room - I'd stay with her. Then she crawled into our bed and whispered, "Mommy? Daddy?" and I was more in love than ever. She doesn't do it all that often - certainly not to the point of abuse - and there will come a day when I will be too old and stupid to be with and I won't have the answers and my presence certainly won't be comforting, so I'll take it while it lasts!
If you get a bigger bed, you have a REASON to go to Ikea. :D
I didn't think it was possible for me to adore Noah more than I already do, but this post hit a new high.
And don't get me started on cosleeping in a double - I dream about a king size bed each and every night. Seriously, I do.
Smart parents. Lucky family.
We have been dealing with the same thing the past few weeks. My son transitioned beautifully to the big boy bed, but now comes into our room so quietly and then all of a sudden is in my face saying "mom can i sleep with you?" Because we've had major sleep issues with him from day 1 we say no, but its very hard and when he comes back again at 5am and asks if its morning i say yes!
If we all tell you, will you get a bigger bed? I so miss the family bed we shared. They are ten and twelve now so it wouldn't be quite so nice, but I'm incredibly grateful for the sweet snuggle memories. And what a touching story for us touching-story-fans ;)
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Are you sure he's not autistic?
Soooo sweet. And Noah looks so big!
I guess I will be the only one to comment that I loved sharing a double w/ my husband!
He is a beautiful boy. And just because he is musically inclined does NOT mean he is autistic. My son who was also a late talker/quirky kid is very interested in music and knows every word to every Beatles song ever written! He will be 4 in a couple of months and we didn't really stop worrying until the last couple of months. He never qualified for any kind of label but we worried about autism, apraxia, spd and anything else we could come up with and then around 3 1/2 he just got it. Being in preschool 5 days a week really helped and we just let him be him and encourage all the things he excells at like music. Keep building his confidence with music and speech and someday soon your worries will all be gone!
You don't know me, but really GET THEE TO A MATRESS FIRM WOMAN! They always have those 0 percent interest for 4 years dealies. That is the reason we just had to have a Tempurpedic:)You know, free money and all.
Your son is gorgeous and sounds like he has a quirky, fun, and wonderful personality. I have read your blog since you were pregnant with Noah and have always been throughly impressed with the humor, candor, and grace with which you are able to describe yoour life. This post especially so.
You and I are the same age and I have 4 month old. From what you describe, you are handling life with 2 FAR better than I am handling life with one!
someone get this boy a musical instrument, stat!
i know a lot of musicians who find it much easier to express themselves through music than with words... who knows, maybe it's the case for noah too. :)
I love my husband, but I will tell anyone that thing that makes our marriage damn near perfect, is our king sized bed. Best of luck to you in a double - you are a saint.
And as a HS band director, I would recommend getting Noah a violin and lessons - my guess is that he has GREAT musical apptitude. Could be something that he's amazing at!
I loved this. My kids are also 3 years apart, and the older one started coming in our room once the baby was born. We created a "little bed" for him out of floor pillows and a fleece throw, which he is allowed to sleep on when he needs to have company. He now uses it maybe 1-2 times per week, and I gained personal space back (the baby is in his crib.)
Oh. GORGEOUS post. Gorgeous boys. Sigh. Happy New Year, Amy!
So sweet :) Almost makes me wish I co-slept.. then I remember that my toddler doesn't sing himself to sleep, he plays fighting games with his teddies.
How absolutely adorable!